RELATIONSHIPS: a youth perspective.

Holy crap!! Why the hell have I taken up one of the most confusing n most hard to comprehend topics on earth to write on my blog??!! Well…I think am seriously crazy!! Crazy to the power n as n tends to infinity!! That’s exactly how crazy this is!! Anyways, I’ll try my best to write something which I think would make sense!! But what u think is not in the frame here??!! Well…No…This is MY blog…..But does that really matter after all??!!

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It’s absolutely up to you to figure out the answer!! In the meanwhile, I hope u can cope with my verbal diarrhea!!

Hmm…lemme get started!! Relationships!! Well if u r a teenager or in ur early twenties…I can bet my life that a girlfriend or boyfriend came to your mind rite after u read the name of the topic!! If not… you are abnormal!! Go get yourself checked!!

Huh!! I wonder why people say that am in a relationship only after they get their girlfriends or boyfriends??!! Weren’t they in any sort of relationship before they got their supposedly called “THE ONE” for them??!! I feel like kicking them on their asses when they say “I got into a relationship macha!!”…

Actually…the very meaning of the word “relationship” has had a drastic makeover in today’s generation!! It’s synonymously used to refer to their love lives!!! Is that all what relationship is about?!! Or do I even need to tell u people that the answer is no??!!

What do you call the bond that you share with your mom??!! Your dad?? Your cousins?? More importantly the people other than your “the one”…lemme put them as just friends!! Aren’t you having an emotional attachment with your dog??!! Do you feel great when someone you r emotionally attached to ends up hurt n starts crying…n buckets of tears rolling down their cheeks??? Well…if you have a functional heart…and a correctly wired brain…you would obviously respond to their miseries and you would no doubt help them in overcoming their dismal fate!!

That’s exactly what I call relationship!! Relationship is in itself a complexity!! As I belong to today’s generation…lemme write about relationships in today’s generation point of view!! It is like a journey through a rough terrain… may not be always…but most of the time it is… like traveling in a disturbed sea… in which the relation”ship” seems to sink anytime!!

But if your love towards that person is “without wax” (refer digital fortress to find out wat it means!), your relation”ship” would no doubt tackle the threats posed by the sea n surely would reach a safe haven!! Sooner or later!! One thing you should try n learn is to “HANG ON!!”… hang on till u get there!!

Relationship has different facets to it!! Its not all that easy to sail smooth in a relationship!! Its often misused with the term “COMMITTED”!! People might say that “have a look at them man!! They are seeing each other for quite some time now!! Seems they got into a “relationship”!!”

It might sound strange… but there will always be a few people…that you are emotionally very much attached to…and you want to share anything and everything that goes through your mind!! And you would always be dying to spend as much time with them as possible!! More often than not…these people will be of opposite sex!!

But sadly… the ambience of the society that we live in…doesn’t go all that easy with the fact that a guy and a gal can be really close friends… till date, I am not able to figure out what’s so offending in this…if you figure out…do lemme know!! Cos it seems to be an eternal search for the answer to me!!

Well…we “supposedly” get into relationships with people we love…n whom we think…or rather our stupid heart thinks that we both should stay together forever!!

It all looks alluring in the beginning!! Those undercover hang outs, those non stop messagings…those “never seem to end till the phone bursts” talks…silly fights… break ups…and even funnier make ups… you know…doing all sorts of crazy things… thinking that “ALL’S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR!!!”

The question that arises in my mind everytime I think of a relationship is…”am I mature enough to handle one??” I still feel dat am not and I am happy to be single!!” well…people…I suggest all of you should ask this to yourself before you take dat leap in your life!!am sure this will come in handy!!

Well…after u read the last paragraph…u mite end up thinking that am a committed guy!! N how would this guy end up writing an article on relationships if he was not committed!!

The fact is…am not committed or anyway close to that word!! Am single!! Absolutely single!! And ready to mingle as well!! Am able to write about relationships just because I have seen many of my friends n their supposed relationships from a very close quarters for such a long time that I have gained enough courage and “GYAN” to pull off an article on relationships!! Thanks to all my buddies!!

I confess the fact that I would never have ventured to write on this topic if it wasn’t for one of my closest friends…who made me start this blog….when I told her that I was in a writing mood n asked her to suggest a topic…she suggested this…

Well I don’t really know if I have done justice to her suggestion!! Its upto you people and her to lemme knw!! Dats d end of my “verbal diarrhea!!”. Its time for you to go clean up the mess on yourself!!!