Night Stands

How many times you go abroad or just down the club down your hood and promise yourself and friends around. Promise !!! What's that about.. The Promise of getting a super hotty stranger tonight. You deny,you accept it .But the Truth is most of the men and 21st century women do it. The better term known for this act of fun is "ONE NIGHT STAND" .

So what is One Night Stand ?. A one night stand is when you meet someone, possibly someone you've never met before and have a Physical relationship with them with no intention on the part of either one or both parties to ever meet again or to continue the relationship. The time period is usually exactly what it says - for one whole or part of a night! In simple words-You get laid with stranger whom you never want to meet or see again .

One-night stands are a firecracker of sexuality: short, explosive and leaving a lasting memory that often trumps the actual experience.But Beware! The No. 1 luxury of one-night stands centers around attachment. With committed sex, you are furthering love (or whatever you think love is). With one-night stands, however, interactions are merely physical.

How to Go about it- Firstly,never take a girl at your place. There only pros of this act unless and until you have Bungalow facing sea or like my city you have your house in some Porsche sector where you neighbor is to busy to find out who stays next door.

We men .. no-real men would disagree with it that we are dirty . By dirty I mean..our place has T-shirts all around,cupboard has clothes like they have been bought weighing kg's and its usually a mess.On the other hand ,Women tend to keep their quarters a little nicer than men, which is especially convenient when plans are made on the fly. You might not have expected to take anyone home, so your dirty gym socks and unwashed sheets can make your place seem like a war zone to her. Don’t ruin the mood with these unnecessary outside forces. Besides, there is nothing like a woman’s bed.Also, being at her place gives you time to find out who exactly is she and gives you time to do lot more than you expected it to happen . Or, Hell she could be Psycho girl who has fallen in love at first sight and now you are in bloody trouble. You don't want to show your house to such lady..do you ?? So, always kind try and go to her place. And most importantly you can leave without any questions while she's sleeping to the dreams of last night.

And if it fails somehow after you reach her place as she has suddenly realized she is cheating on true love , an exit plan should always be in the back of your mind in case you have to abandon ship. Leaving is always easier than getting her to leave.

Be Safe

Mystery fuels the fire of a one-night stand. She doesn’t know you. Everything is physical -- no prior knowledge required and no strings attached. Well, except for one, potentially. Do you really need a reason to be safe? With some areas experiencing increases in diseases like HIV and syphilis, today’s one-night stands have added risks, and you don't want to be bringing home any unwanted souvenirs.

We all know a guy who has made the occasional mistake with a woman and drilled without any hardware. No matter what she says, unprotected sex can yield fatal results for you, or for her, in the event one of you is carrying a disease that you don’t know about. Don’t ruin a perfectly goodnight.Be safe.

Be adventurous

Our girlfriends want it to be a manifestation of love. This has inspired a wealth of sexual idealization, the kind that single-handedly fuels Hugh Grant’s movie career. One-night stands don’t require the same sort of sensitivity, so leave that all behind. Let this be your opportunity to try out a few new things.

You have never been with this girl, so communication will guarantee a better experience. She won’t know what you’re into or what works in your short-term chemistry, so let her know exactly what is going on. Be vocal.

On the other hand, don’t be too cautious either. This is your time to shine. If she doesn't like something, then back off, but don’t hesitate to live out your fantasy. Inversely, she might be frisky too. Maintain an open mind while she explores. The more you talk the better it would be easy to leave mark.And the best part is you have absolutely nothing on the line to loose . New thing works ...Fine VOILA! If it doesn't ...who cares . She aint troubling you again anyway. So, enjoy the moment and feel Free to try that move out you saw in that movie.Together you’ll end up going to previously uncharted territories.

Don’t be Stupid

Guys tend to let the confidence of a one-night stand inflate their egos, sometimes in a demeaning way. You might not see her again, but don’t break ties on a bad note -- if not for your own pride, then because all girls talk. Furthermore, this one-night stand may prompt a desire to extend your stay with this mystery woman.And who knows she's that super rich chick or the one you waited for all your life.

I mostly don't even break ties with my X on bad note. Its dis-respect to women.Whatever you do, don't forget to give respect to women.Never indulge in fight with stranger .This can be very lethal. You touch her bad,she call cops and you are fucked up on charges of trying to kidnap or worse rape. So, be calm patient.If she changes her mind..accept it ,have your coffee ,wine and get lost.

Don’t ruin any opportunity to see her again with a cocky demeanor to deter her from future communication.

I guess all is said, be careful. The spontaneity of one-night stands can breed carelessness. Don’t ruin your experience by making preventable mistakes.