Losing virginity before marriage - Heaven or Hell?

Gimme More!

A well known, but a really overlooked and neglected issue this is. We fall in Love, taste the pleasures of touching different sex, and then, it becomes almost impossible to say no to the real pleasure of experiencing the thing called ‘sex’. And so young kids of the age of 15-16, lose their virginity, without even physically prepared enough to handle the consequences.

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There is nothing wrong in gaining pleasure out of nature’s such beautiful thing-which is also, actually, ‘meant to be done.’ But then, what is the fear? Why is it a sin in all the existing religious texts till today? The reason is that all pleasures in this world are to be taken in a limited quantity and in a way not harmful to one’s self. I mean, if each-n–every boy or girl of this world started having sex with all the other known boy/gal, right since the age of 15/16, nobody would be interested in marriages, or commitment, and then, not a single human would take over the responsibility of bringing up kids or carrying a family. Abortions would be a normal day-to-day activity and loads of children would be left orphan.

Even if we look at it on individual basis - 80% of girls who lost their virginity early would agree that they haven’t done any good. They have in turn hurt themselves.

A woman having the responsibility to carry a child in her womb, has to go through much more pain (and bleeding) than a man who just goes through a bit of oooh-ouch! And the case gets worse if by-chance you get pregnant(ofcourse! even after all those condoms), because once pregnant, its really hard to handle the abortions after one-month, and believe me you’re going to see a hell if you're below 18!

Here are some of the points kept by women who lost virginity early in their life, explaining as to why not lose your virginity before marriage.

1) “Its so good to give yourself completely to the person you marry and make having sex a great experience. I regret not having that opportunity.”

2) “Its not a surety that the person you are losing virginity to will not leave you- and when he does, it becomes emotionally unbearable!”

3) “Even if you don’t know how to do the thing, you on’t worry about what you’re missing on if you truly love the person”.

4) “Marriage isnt just about sex... its just one of the benefits.”

5) “Taking pregnancy pills and aborting even a two-month child is a strict no-no for young girls below 18. Its medically not advisable.”

6) “I am not sure if I will still enjoy the same fun with my husband after 20 years becos I am already used to doing it all and would be sick of it in some-time.”

But there can be some points taken as benefits as when you are an experienced rider, there are less chances of accidents and moreover, you concentrate on enjoying the drive rather than how to drive.

So, what is important? Enjoyment with a hell lot of risk or the enjoyment after a safe-sound period of time. Everything, in this world, if done at the right time, gives the best results. If you try to learn the maths of 10th level at the age of studying tables, you would surely go insane.(Not much of a harm!)

At the end, Even if a million people say that a wrong thing is right, it still remains wrong.