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First things first…I hope to finish this article! Because this is the first time ever,am writing on something which is serious. And am writing it when I am in a sad state of mind. For reasons innumerable. I have a lot to brood on rite now.
Life is a glorified mess! That is what it is. It is totally unpredictable. Totally and literally. You never give life a thought when things are going silky smooth. You don’t give it a thought when life treats you the way you want it to. You feel like a king when everything’s in place. You often end up advising people whose lives are miserable because of some or the other reason without even understanding the gravity of the situation… you know… you have this cold blooded casual approach towards other people’s problems…all the time. Which Is very sickening:-(
You should never advise someone until you have seriously thought about its consequences. If you don’t know what the end result’s gonna be..u better shut the f**k up rather than screwing up someone else’s life.
Its always easy to say something than to put it into action. You realise this when life suddenly takes a u turn…n before you figure out something’s fishy…it hits you on your ass..and you cant belive that this time around, the victim is no one else but you. You are suddenly in the middle of nowhere. Completely lost. And there doesn’t seem to be a way out of it..atleast anytime soon…
You just want to sit back,grab a cup of tea, and try to figure out what actually went wrong and what was the supposed way of avoiding it from happening. You just want to stay alone and let no one talk to you about that shit. Your mind enters a melancholic state. Melancholy…it can be as seductive as ecstasy. You are lost in your own world of thoughtful sadness…
It is by this time,that you seriously start giving a thought to the problem. And the most irritating part starts here… advises… it comes from all the directions…now you decide that you are never gonna do this to anyone. Because you yourself know how agonising it is to be in the shoes of a victim.
Problems can come to you through a zillion ways. Sometimes it hits you through a highway..n sometimes through a way that you did not even know it existed. You can predict some problems coming your way. You sometimes even are prepared to face the music. Because you know something is wrong from your side.
People say best things come when you least expect them. I say this holds good for worse things too. They don’t even give a damn clue. Nothing can be as distressful as facing a problem like this. Things get even complicated if the mistake is not yours. And you are actually paying up for somebody else’s mistakes. You cant stand the fact that you are totally helpless but to suffer. Suffer excruciating pain. Your social image, your self confidence, self esteem, self belief, blah blah blah takes a solid hit. You feel like you’ve had enough and you try pulling the curtains on everything. And put a permanent end to it by doing something out of ordinary.
This is the time your friend circle matters. If you really have friends who care for you, who really want you to be happy, people who genuinely feel that there’s a way out of it for you, will imbibe into you something called as “HOPE”. They’ll make you think or rather understand that there are no hopeless situations…but only you are hopeless about it. “Hope never abandons you. You abandon it.”
Hope is nothing but a desire that you want to fulfill by hook or crook. Hope is the only thing that can bail you out of a hopeless situation. you can sense the irony.
I am lucky to have such close friends in my life. When I had lost it completely, they were there for me to channelise my mind. To control my mind from resorting to stupid ideas that my mind is so good in generating. A very close friend of mine,always told me that this is not the end of my road. She made me believe that something good’s awaiting me and Its just a matter of time till I get there.
It is really really hard sometimes to get through such phases in your life without your loved ones walking you through it. Because you are not designed to take all that shit alone. In mechanical engineering terms, you have a very low factor of safety. A small jolt can dismantle you totally. Your loved ones are the joints that make you a strong structure. And improve the factor of safety.
Even I have started hoping. I realised now that “hope is a good thing. Infact best of things!” as andy says in the movie shawshank redemption. Thanks to my friends. I am feeling a bit better now.
Always give hope a shot when you think there’s no way out of something. It will make you feel a lot better. Atleast it worked on me. I hope after reading this,you people start hoping(if you already are hoping,then continue hoping!)I know you are hoping to finish this article! I am hoping the same as well;-)
well…again I wrote on this topic as my close friend wanted me to. I feel sad that she ends up suggesting me topics to write on all the time. I “HOPE” I can find my own topics atleast in the future! Or lemme hope dat she always keeps suggesting! Whoa!! End of the hope recital!! Am done here!!
