Face On/Face Off : Big Boss Housemates Behaviour
They say, Face is the Index of Behaviour. Behavior, explicit or implicit, is significant. Is the face or our overt behaviour always a reflection of our covert behaviour? If we take it as true, then behavior of many people surprises me. Like people from Haryana/UP, especially from the heart of jatland of Haryana, they as per common belief are considered harsh in their tones, rough in their approach, sometimes considered even rude for being too straight forward. But then it is also believed that they are very kind hearted, very simple, very pure at their hearts. But until this simplicity, this purity, this kindness is shown in words, until this internal behavior is expressed through external behavior, how can we let others know our inner self, hence our complete self, our real self?

On the other hand, there are people who are overly sweet overtly, while may carry most malicious feelings in their hearts. Such people are even more perilous to be friends with. One cannot help being swept away by their sugar coated behaviour. Who knows what’s concealed deep within until unless it affects anyhow. No one can look into one's heart. What is obvious is considered true. As we recently saw behavior of participants in Big Boss House also. Among the finalists, Poonam Dhillon was very polite and sweet, whereas Pravesh Rana and Vindu Dara Singh were outspoken; but Pravesh was harsh and straight forward at times that made him appear arrogant while Vindu was soft and humble, which helped him win millions of hearts. Thou’ ultimately we are known by the wholesome comprising not only of our visible responses, but also taking into account our conduct, our actions, and our reactions. However as it is that the foremost impressions are made by the apparent, so it's also very important to make evident the inner side of ours. There should be one to one relationship between overt and covert. If we are rude, we are rough in this Face On (show off) business, how it's going to make an impression on others; so what we are the most kind, most sensible persons Face Off.





